Okay, this topic has been tugging on my heart all day because it's such a conviction topic! Why?! BECAUSE WE ALL DO THIS! And what I mean by all, I mean all ladies do this! You can try to deny this but that's not necessary because we know that we would be telling a story to ourselves and the truth would not be in us. At the end of the day, what we need to do as young women is to STOP HATING and start helping each other grow.
I myself is a true convict of this. I find myself hating in some type of way even if it's not intentional I still do it and ultimately WE ALL still do. We may hate on each other as black women by the color of our skin, how long our hair is, the way we dress, what our eye brows look like, what make up we have on & how it looks, etc. I COULD REALLY GO ON AND ON! However, I did all these very things to myself and about other women. I always hated on someone else to make up for the things I lacked, how I felt, and because ultimately was just being a BULLY.  I don't understand why as women we tend to be like that because ultimately we are searching for the same common goal and that's to be loved our flaws and all.
But, this world is becoming more and more cruel. Also, social media doesn't help because  it says that we as women have to be a certain type of way to feel happy and be socially accepted. THATS NOT RIGHT! It's beating down on us as young women and we are fighting each other for the LOOK! But no where is it written that we have to be this or that! Instead we should just try doing something different and that's being OURSELVES! A lot more people would take us seriously and we will be more confident!
Instead of us women saying something negative we need to COMPLIMENT ONE ANOTHER! You never know someone struggles and that small compliment you give can brighten someone's day! As for me I'm going to take that into account for myself! We look how we feel and if we let others beat us down we will never be happy and be searching for our identity in this world! What we really need to do is compliment, love one another, give good advice, help us enhance our beauty, and be constructive towards one another. NO WHERE IS IT CUTE TO BE CATTY AND FIGHTING EACH OTHER! What we need to do in plain sight is just STOP HATING WOMEN! We have to get back to standing up for each other and our rights! Let's face it, no man is going to take us seriously if we keep testing each other down. I know a lot of is worn can see that men don't usually have that problem be use they I don't care what others think. They are fly or whatever be use they want to be not Ecuador society says so. We should be a little like that. Bold, confident, but never to HIGH AND MIGHTY OF OURSELVES That we can't recognize other women beauty and compliment them.
I know it's not easy and everything takes time but we really should try and strive for that. Learn how to build lasting friendships with women with all over the world and staying strong and connected to one another. Our hairy is truly skin deep and if that produces on the outside naturally we are still ugly women anyway no matter how we dress it up! You were created and wonderfully made by GOD! Embrace it! god didn't make MESS AND YOU ARENT MESS, we aren't mess! So let's stop hating each other and get on board with helping & building each other other up! Come on ladies! We can do this and we only need a few to make an impact.
I know for me it's going to start with me and I'm going to do my best to pay someone a compliment and not be so quick to HATE! We don't know enough about the next person to be hating anyway! SO DONT DO IT! Just love your lives ladies because we will truly be happy when we do. Help each other, give each other tips whether you're going natural or you want make up times. But most important do it out of the KINDNESS OF YOUR HEARTS and not with some  motive!
Appreciate the women we are! I know I'm starting too!
REMEMBER no one is going to know your worth if you don't! Be happy, be blessed, be confident, be bold, but most importantly be YOU!
STOP THE HATE...WOMEN!!!